I think there comes a time when you realize, that the only life you have any control is your own.
You can't control what other people think.
What they feel, do or believe.
You can't change the way people are.
People are stubborn.
Set in their own ways.
People don't want to see their flaws.
They don't want to think that they need to change.
But the will to change, to save them, needs to come from within them.
Not from within other people.
I think people generally think that if they take a broken person.
And try really hard.
They can make it all better.
But I don't think it works like that.
At the end of the day, the only person who can save you, is you.
People like to rely on other people.
Think that other people can solve their problems for them.
That way they have someone to blame when it doesn't work.
Save yourself.
No one else can save you.
My family are mostly my close friends, my support system. I try to take one day at a time and remind myself I am not really by myself.
That is really inspirational Pengen. It is true. The only person that can save you, is yourself. Its just sometimes I don't think you can do it alone. Sometimes you do fail yourself, and your friends and family are there to support you and help you save yourself. They save you to save yourself too.
ReplyDeleteMoral of the story, love yourself :D haha